
I loved this post so much from Mike Friesen's blog lastnight, that I had to share it with you in its entirety. Guys, seriously head over to his blog now, and just be blown away by the quality of his writing, and the depth of his thought. He is a writer that asks questions, and plays with concepts, ideas, thoughts, and gives us as reader's, much to think about. The depth of his thoughts are powerful. This post lastnight could have been written by Solomon himself. For those of you girls waiting for that man, read this and be encouraged, know that he does exist, and believe, believe, believe that you will find him.
Here are some thoughts on what I think it means to be a Proverbs 31 man:
Who can find a virtuous and capable husband?
One that is more valuable than fine chocolate.
His wife can trust him,
His presence will deeply bless her,
He protects her dignity and loves her,
All the days of his life
He will learn to be assertive when he needs to,
He will learn to be passive when he needs to,
He will help drive the kids to practice and events even if he is tire,
He will be engaged with the finances and the chores,
He will learn to love her mom and dad,
He will turn off sports and watch Katherine Heigl movies
He will remind her that she is a woman,
He will affirm her beauty and his love for her,
He will actively listen to what she has to say,
He will only fix her problems if she wants help with them,
He will make date nights a priority for their well being,
He will not be engaged with her passions and desires to make those
He will smoke cigars and drink scotch (if that’s okay with her),
He will rub her shoulders and back after her long day,
He won’t be afraid to cry in front of her after enduring something hard,
He will be strong and move towards confrontation,
He will learn to love and trust in her wisdom,
He will ask her how her day was and listen to her
He will clean out his hair in the sink after shaving,
He will put on deodorant so his smell doesn’t contaminate the room,
He will take care of the kids and the situation if he wants some loving,
He will see foreplay as necessary if he wants to keep getting loving,
He will do his best to help make the bed in the morning,
He will do his best to give her the knowledge and humor that she needs
written by Mike Friesen

Coke Zero - I have always enjoyed a glass or too of Coca-Cola. It was my guilty pleasure, and every now and again I will enjoy a glass. I like the pop of the caffeine (I don't drink normal tea, or coffee) so I am not used to the lift of those vastly consumed drinks. But then I discovered coke zero, and I have to tell you I am in LOVE. It doesn't have that strange bitter taste of diet coke, instead it is pretty much identical to regular coca-cola, sure there is a hole where the sugar should be, and it isn't 'The Real Thing' but it is an amazing alternative, if you don't want to consume the crazy amount of sugar. Go try it and let me know what you think folks!
If you are looking for some fashion tips, you will find plenty of inspiration here and here.
This quotation from a cup of my favourite jasmine tea, made me smile, especially because we had Gina and Gray to stay lastweek, and it was simply wonderful.
"A home without guests is no home"
I love having guests, it makes me very happy.
I have just started reading these two blogs and am really impressed with their content.
I am really enjoying reading about Emily's journey with Compassion here
What are you favourite things online this week ... looking forward to hearing.
That's it for now...
Nics
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